Monday, June 27, 2005

Another bend in the road

Well i have moved back home, the wife and i have decided that we want to work this out. YEAH!
If anyone reads this blog you will know that i am not the most stable man in the world. I have had wierd, funny and some down right strange things happen in my life.

This is my 3rd marriage, and will be my last. Hopefully it will be a lasting succesful marriage. I love my wife with all my heart, and i really missed her for the few days i was gone. We have alot of issues to work thru, but the most important one is communication.

You can never talk to much about what is going on in your life. I think i have come to terms with the fact that i have a control issue. I want everything to work my way and it is just not possible.
Your lover should be with you because they want to be, not because you think they have to be.

At my age you would think i would have learned that i am only in control of myself and i dont do a very good job of that most of the time. It is something i need to work on to keep my family together. I am not anywhere close to perfect and i never will be.

Sure she has some things she needs to work on also, but this time i will take the blame for the things that have been wrong in our relationship. I will make the changes i need to make, no matter what happens.

So wish us luck!
Twisted

1 Comments:

At Wed Jul 06, 10:56:00 AM CDT, Blogger Mia said...

Good luck...give it all you got! I followed you through the comment. Nice blog you have here, Im going to book mark it for later reading. You should check out this post on Chucksters....about the Dr Phil book "relationship Rescue"...lol its quite funny.

http://www.thechuckster.com/

 

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