Tuesday, July 19, 2005

How much is enough

I got to thinking ( yep my head is hurting) after rereading the last post and comments. I have a question, and i want you to answer as truthfully as you can.

HOW MUCH IS ENOUGH SEX?

And i mean how often. You can answer any way you like. Do you feel like you get enough sex?
Do you get it as often as you would like? Do you get it as good as you would like?

I know it is not the most important thing in the world, or in a marriage. But i know i dont feel like i get it as often as i would like. And sometimes i feel like i am the only one participating!
Of course being a man and all, i know that it does not always matter if your partner is in too it.

This is my 3rd marriage and it has been just a little short of 3 years. I know at the start of the relationship it seemed like that is all we did. But with kids and jobs and every day bullshit it seems like it has really tapered off.

So tell me how often you get it, how often you would like it, and how long have you been in the relationship!
Later
Twisted

10 Comments:

At Tue Jul 19, 09:23:00 AM CDT, Blogger twizted said...

Feel free to comment as anonymous if you dont really want anyone knowing your business!

 
At Tue Jul 19, 11:34:00 AM CDT, Blogger twizted said...

Well i did not mean to hit a sore spot, but i am sure that money and sex are the 2 biggest problems in any marriage.
If anyone wants to email me direct it
is morallytwizted@yahoo.com

 
At Tue Jul 19, 05:13:00 PM CDT, Blogger Sugar said...

Hmmm...do I get enough?
I get all I need, but is it wot I need?
My hubby never asks for sex...ever, not in the 8 years we've been together..that can be a problem in itself.
I guess I see the flipside of the coin here :)

 
At Wed Jul 20, 07:37:00 AM CDT, Blogger twizted said...

Evie
He has never asked for sex? So you offer it up that often, or he has a low sex drive?
We you get it alot, but it is not what you need? So what does a girl like you need?

 
At Wed Jul 20, 07:38:00 AM CDT, Blogger twizted said...

Rae
I have had times in my life when i was getting it all the time and was still not satisfied. I dont think your looking for sex, i think your looking for sex with someone that loves you.
Just my opinion.

 
At Wed Jul 20, 09:46:00 AM CDT, Anonymous Anonymous said...

i mean disagree
nice freudian slip on that one


rae

 
At Wed Jul 20, 09:50:00 AM CDT, Blogger twizted said...

rae
I meant to say that is what you need to be satisfied. I dont think your looking for a relationship. But sex is so much more fulfilling when it is with someone that loves you.
Of course dont get me wrong, some hot unattached kinky sex sure does the trick sometimes.LOL

 
At Wed Jul 20, 09:55:00 AM CDT, Anonymous Anonymous said...

well i just wrote a reflective post on this idea of yours....
:)

i think it is definitely good to have sex with someone you love but i am definitely at that point in my life where i am ready for some unattached kinky sex....

;-)


rae

 
At Wed Jul 20, 10:02:00 AM CDT, Anonymous Anonymous said...

no offended one bit...
not one bit i tell you!!!

wish there was a faster way to talk besides through comments
;-)

rae

 
At Wed Jul 20, 10:25:00 AM CDT, Blogger twizted said...

rae
It is not much faster, but you can email me if you would like, morallytwizted@yahoo.com
I cant chat from work, but i can check emails!

 

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