Well Not much happening here!

Well not much happening around these parts. The women search is still on and damn if I am not having the worst luck! I just don't know what it takes to find a female friend. I did not follow the advice I was given and try a few of the ladies at work. Just not sure that is the best idea right now. I really am not sure getting your bread and your meat in the same place is really a good idea.
I know that I dont work that closely with those women, but I sure would hate to ruin a good working enviorment with a nasty break up or some hard feelings.

I am trying the ole internet dating sites that I have tried in the past, i have made a few connections but nothing to write home about. Chatted with a few online but have just not been able to get together with them, maybe it is me and maybe they just have a real busy life right now. I guess I should not rush it, something good will turn up soon i hope!

The girls are doing fine and are enjoying getting to sleep late and stay up late, they have spent time with thier mom and with my sisters so they really have not been here that much this summer. Damn I really miss them when they are gone.

Work is about the same, always happy to get up and go to work almost every day. So that is about it, not much else to report.
Later
Twisted

I know I know

Looks like i am falling back into the same ole routine. It's been a few weeks since i posted anything here. I really don't set out to not keep this thing up to date it just happens. Well lets see what has been happening since the last time i was here.
Don't really have to much important to talk about. Life is about the same. We did get my daughter a snake, yea i know that freaks some people out. But she likes those things.

Nothing new on the female hunt. But i guess if your not trying very hard you can not get much result. I have placed an add on yahoo. But not really anything to report back on.

We did have a wonderful time over the long weekend, i took monday off so i had a 4 day weekend, lots of eating drinking and swimming. It was a great time.

Well i guess that is about it.
Later
Twisted

Here's to great weekends

The girls were gone to thier mom's house most of the weekend. So I just sit around the house playing on the internet friday night. Did not have much to do. Had to do some laundry and some ironing, but other than that it was quite friday night.

Saturday a buddy of mine came down to pick up some computer stuff, made a trip to staples and he spent some cash. He called plenty early and I was able to get some meat for smoking. I love firing up the smoker as long as someone is coming over to eat. Got a call from the girls and they came home early, about 8:00 saturday night. We had just taken the ribs and squash off the grill but they had already eaten.

Did a little more laundry yesterday and then took me a nice nap. I love napping on the weekends. I know I am lazy, but nothing better than a nice 1.5 hour nap. Then got up and took the girls to pick up some pics they had developed at wal mart, then went out for ice cream.

So even thou there were no women involved this weekend, it still was pretty nice. We had a real nice shower yesterday evening and last night and it was 59 degrees out this morning, unheard of around here in the summer.

Well that is about it for my lovely weekend
Later
Twisted

Repeat

I am sure I have asked this question before. But I am going to ask it again. What do you women do to show your intrest in some one of the opposite sex?

I was talking to my mom the other day, and we were discussing my lack of female companionship. I told her I never know if a woman is intrested in me. I really don't have a clue, after she laughed for 10 minutes she said that some of the ways you can tell if someone is intrested is. They smile alot at you, and usually want to make some kind of bodily contact, like maybe touching your hand or arm when they are talking to you. Is this still true? My mom is in her 50's and has been single for along time. And I am sure she is probably right, but I wanted some input from some of you ladies.

The reason I ask is, that I work at a hospital, and I think most nurses are just friendly by nature. So if they smile alot and talk to me alot, I just think they are being nice. I really don't think I pick up on thier signals. I have a few women here at work that are very friendly, are they showing intrest or just being nice?

I know i should take the chance and ask them out, but I really don't want to offend anyone. I guess that maybe when it comes to the females I might just be a little shy.
I know I should not worry about it, because buddha girl is goin to hook me up! LOL

Well leave a comment if you want, I would really like to know what you think.
Later
Twisted

I must be old fashion

Ok I guess I must be back in the 80's. You ask why do I say that? I have noticed something about women or at least the ones online. I know I should avoid these women at all cost, but it so much easier to strike up a conversation online now days. And being the boring guy that I am I hardly ever go out any more. Of course I never really went out before.

Ok back to what I was saying, It seems that women will just offer there phone numbers to any one they chat with online. I find this really disturbing. I mean I dont even ask for there number and they offer it anyways. Is it just me, are women just more forward now days? Hell if I want your number I will ask for it. Just because we chat for 20 minutes online does not mean that we need to talk on the phone. I just can not get over how easy they offer up the phone number.
Are they that desperate for adult conversation? Do they really need to talk on the phone after 2o minutes of chatting? Hell I want to be the one that ask for the number. It scares me the hell off quick. I think there must be something wrong with ya, if you offer up the number that quick.
I mean if you are wanting some phone sex then just come out and say that is what you want. I might be up for that ( no pun intended).

I still think that men should make the first move, I still think we should open doors and be polite. I think we should buy dinner and all that jazz. Maybe I need to get a book and read up on the times. Maybe i am just an old fuddy duddy. Is it me? Or am I just living in the past?
Comments welcome
Later
Twisted

Well what else can I say?

Well since the break I took from blogging, my sex life has pretty much been me taking matters in hand. Yep Rosie palm and I have been spending alot of quaility time together. It ain't so bad, I don't have to spring for a movie or dinner. I don't have to spend alot of time getting her in the mood. Nor do I have to really try for a superior performance.

But you know even online porn gets old after a while. Hell I thought I knew all the good sites, but seems to be just the same ole pictures. I have made a little attempt at trying to find a lady friend. But like in the past I turned to the internet and It did not work out so well.

I have mentioned on here before that I like a lady with a little meat on her bones. I am not so vain to think that a woman in shape really wants to hang out with an old fatty like me. So I put an add online at a website for bigger people. Now this site required an add to even few the other folks adds. I did not spend money on it, but i did post an add and a pic.

After about 2 days i get a message on the site from a lady that lives in another town. She emailed me and we chatted online for a few hours the first night. I saw the pic she posted on her add, it was mostly a head shot. I asked her how old the pic was and she said about a year and a half old. She looked pretty good in the pic. She also sent me a pic that she said was about a year old. I guess this should have sent up a red flag, as I sent her a pic that was about 2 weeks old.

We chatted a few more times online and she asked if i would like to call her. So we talked on the phone everyday for about a week and she was really pushing to meet me. Should have been another red flag, but I guess I am a slow learner.

We decided that since she had no children and I do that she would drive the 30 miles to my town. I invite her to come up about 1:00 on a saturday afternoon and I would take her out for lunch. Well the big day arrived, I went and got a haircut, a new shirt and even spent several hours getting my vehicle cleaned up.

She shows up at the meeting place and called me to come meet her so we could go to lunch. Well I show up and a woman about twice the size of the pic she sent gets out of the car. I am thinking to myself what happened, did this large lady eat the girl I was supposed to meet? I know that is shitty, but she looked nothing like the lady in the pics, I mean nothing at all. Hell I am not even sure if it was the same person. So I was nice and went ahead with the date, I talked to her and took her our for a nice lunch and showed her around town.
She emails me the next day and wants to know what the problem is. I explained that I feel like she misrepresented herself, and that I have to be at least a little attracted to someone to date them. I am sure some of you folks will think I am a dick, but at least I am honest!

Later
Twisted

The life and times................

Ok I have to thing back to what happened since I last posted here. Well lets see........................

I guess the last thing was the crazy-drug sniffing-lieing soon to be ex-wife. Have only heard from her once since I confronted her with the drug stash. She called and left me a vm that she did not know what I was going to do about the divorce and the insurance coverage on her, but that she was having surgery in a few weeks.
That was back in march. I heard from a friend of hers that she did have sugery, she had breast reduction surgery. I asked if he had been by to see them and he replied with a definte NO!

See one of the reasons she was keeping me around was because I have good insurance. And she took advantage of it! I have not filed the divorce papers yet, but that is coming soon.

Ok what next? Oh yea I found out in the end of april that I was border line diabetic. But by the end of MayI had lowered my blood sugar to 110 fasting. The doctor was very happy. So now I have it under control, i quit drinking soda, and quit eating candy of any kind. Lots of tea for me now.

I also had a birthday last month, turned the ripe old age of 42! Damn I am getting old. I have not had much luck with the ladies lately. But then again I have not tried very hard either.

Well that is enough for today
Later
Twisted